Going into pregnancy and birth we have such high hopes. We prepare and plan, shop and decorate, exercise and breath, and of course we daven...
However, there are so many aspects of our birth journey that are simply beyond our control. Reality has a way of taking us by surprise and all of a sudden everything can be turned on its head; we’re dealing with a birth situation that we could never have foreseen and certainly didn’t plan! Most of us will be able to re-adjust and absorb the changes, working with the reality presented to us. Statistics show that 80% of women will succeed in settling their emotions using their natural resilience and innate skills within a month of a difficult birth experience. However, the other 20% might struggle for longer, with the memories and feelings of what they’ve been through bringing up unwanted emotional or physical responses for months or even years after the event.
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Going into pregnancy and birth we have such high hopes. We prepare and plan, shop and decorate, breath and exercise, and Daven too. Pregnancy, birth and beyond have a way of taking us by surprise, when we least expect, turning everything on it’s head. For the most part, we are great at re-adjusting and we absorb the changes and work with the reality presented to us. 80% of women using their natural resilience and internal skills will settle their emotions within a month after the experience. The other 20% however, might struggle for longer, with the memories and feelings of what they’ve been through bringing up unwanted emotional or physical response for months or years after the incident.
We would usually think PTSD only happens when there is a medical emergency, however emotional or physical distress can also lead to birth trauma, as can any incident described as TOO MUCH, TOO LONG. Below are some examples of what we treat. H.G., miscarriage, illness to the mum or baby in pregnancy, bleeding in pregnancy, hospitalisation, being alone in labour, not being believed, not being listened to , uncaring medical support, unplanned intervention, emergency c-section, breast feeding issues, struggles getting to the Mikvah and any other situation you may find yourself traumatised by
Birth trauma symptoms include:
Panic attacks
Flashbacks
Low mood
Physical symptoms (stomach pains etc)
Fear of another pregnancy or birth
Panic when triggered by anything birth related
Detachment from baby
Constant anxiety
Irritable
Difficulty concentrating
Avoidance in talking about the birth
Difficulty falling or staying asleep
The birthing mum, the husband/birth partner, the doula, the midwife and obstetrician, any other children in the family, the baby.Trauma is subjective, there may be many people in the room who will all experience the incident differently.
Since 2021 I’ve been working as a BTR – Birth Trauma release practitioner with unbelievably positive results. The techniques are very fast working and often a dramatic shift is felt after only 2-3 sessions. Many women already start to feel a much greater sense of calm, have positive thoughts for the future and can look back without becoming emotional or upset.
If this is something you think you might be suffering with , however long ago the experience may have been, please be in touch.
If you’d like to arrange a trauma training for the doula’s or post/natal workers in your community please be in touch to discuss further.
A birth support professional who is trained to recognize the signs of possible birth trauma can be highly effective in preventing or minimizing a long-term trauma and will also understand when and how to signpost a woman to seek help. Even doulas with many years’ experience in supporting women through birth, have felt empowered through my presentation and have reported putting their new-found skills to instant use. If you’d like to arrange a birth trauma awareness training session for doulas or postpartum professionals in your community, I would love to hear from you!
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